Tuesday, December 22, 2020

An Attack on Monogamy

 

      Polygamist Brigham Young

      There have been many attacks on Christianity through the years.  One of the many ways Brigham Young attacked Christianity was through monogamy, the one-wife system.  He said, "Monogamy, or restrictions by law to one wife, is no part of the economy of heaven among men.  Such a system was commenced by the founders of the Roman empire...."Rome became the mistress of the world, and introduced this order of monogamy wherever her sway was acknowledged.  Thus this monogamic order of marriage, so esteemed by modern Christians as a holy sacrament and divine institution, is nothing but a system established by a set of robbers.... Why do we believe in and practice polygamy?  Because the Lord introduced it to his servants in a revelation given to Joseph Smith, and the Lord's servants have always practiced it.  'And is that religion popular in heaven?'  It is the only popular religion there,..." (The Deseret News, A, ugust 6, 1862)

      Brigham Young stated that monogamy leads to prostitution.  "Since the founding of the Roman empire monogamy has prevailed more extensively than in times previous to that.  The founders of that ancient empire were robbers and women stealers, and made laws favoring monogamy in consequence of the scarcity of women among them, and hence this monogamic system which now prevails throughout Christendom, and which had been so fruitful a source of prostitution and whoredom throughout all the Christian monogamic cities of the Old and New World, until rottenness and decay are at the root of their institutions both national and religious." (Journal of Discourses, Vol. 11, Page 128)

      First Counselor, Heber C. Kimball said it is unhealthy to only have one wife.  "I have noticed that a man who has but one wife, and is inclined to that doctrine, soon begins to wither and dry up, while a man who goes into plurality looks fresh, young and sprightly.  Why is this?  Because God loves that man, and because he honors his word.  Some of you may not believe this, but I not only believe it but I also know it.  For a man of God to be confined to one woman is small business,... I do not know what we should do if we had only one wife apiece." (Deseret News, April 22, 1857)

      George A Smith said that polygamists are better looking people.  "We breathe the free air, we have the best looking men and handsomest women, and if they envy us our position, well they may, for they are a poor, narrow minded, pinch-backed race of men, who chain themselves down to the law of monogamy and live all their days under the dominion of one wife.  They ought to be ashamed of such conduct, and the still fouler channel which flows from their practices; and it is not to be wondered at that they should envy those who so much better understand the social relations." (Deseret News, April 16th, 1856)

      The Millennial Star stated that monogamy was a curse.  "The one-wife system not only degenerates the human family, both physically and intellectually, but it is entirely incompatible with philosophical notions of immortality; it is a lure to temptation, and has always proved a curse to a people." (Millennial Star, Vol. 15, page 227)

      Mormon Apostle Orson Pratt believed that monogamy had corrupted European nations.  Some of the nations of Europe who believe in the one wife system have actually forbidden a plurality of wives by their laws; and the consequences are that the whole country among them is overrun with the most abominable practices: adulteries and unlawful connections prevail through all their villages, towns cities, and country places to a most fearful extent."  (The Seer, page 12)

      Pratt associated monogamy with apostate Christianity.  "What an immense amount of immorality, and consequent suffering would have been prevented, had the state governments not been influenced by the corrupt traditions of Apostate Christianity in prohibiting plurality and denouncing it criminal!...Plurality would also diminish greatly the temptations which beset the paths of married men, as well as those who are young; They would no longer be under the temptation to keep a mistress secretly, and to break the marriage covenant, and thus sin against their wives and against God.  How many thousands there are who practice this great abomination.  And why do they do it?  Because they are compelled by our bigoted State laws to confine themselves to one wife....Plurality, therefore, instead of injuring the morals of society, would have an effect directly the reverse; it would greatly purify society from the immoralities which now exist... If plurality should be prohibited on account of jealousies which may arise, monogamy or the one-wife system should be prohibited on account of the still greater jealousies which may arise for fear the husband may keep his secret mistresses, as many thousands do....If the great object be to put a stop by law to the evils arising from jealousies, let laws be enacted, requiring man to have a plurality of wives, or else none at all; prohibit the one wife practice, and you will accomplish much more than you do by prohibiting plurality." (The Seer Page124-125)

      Pratt seemed to believe that monogamy originated in Rome.  "At length, through priestcraft and tradition the Church was made to believe that the Monogamy, established by the Roman civil law, was actually a part of Christianity.... and relinquished the Polygamic system. The one wife system did not originate in the Christian Church, but was adopted from the practice of the Roman nation by the Romish Priesthood, and by them palmed upon the nations as originating in Christianity." (The Seer page 178)

      George Q. Cannon believe that monogamy would shorten the history of a nation. "It is a fact worthy of note that the shortest lived nations of which we have record have been monogamic.  Rome...was a monogamic nation and the numerous evils attending that system early laid the foundation for the ruin which eventually overtook her." (Journal of discourses, Vol. 13, page 202)

      Brigham Young stated that polygamy was a superior philosophy.  "Talk about polygamy! There is no true philosopher on the face of the earth but what will admit that such a system, properly carried out according to the order of heaven, is far superior to monogamy for the raising of healthy, robust children!" (Journal of Discourses, Vol 13, page 317)

      Apostle Orson Pratt also claimed that monogamy brought disease. "This law of monogamy, or the monogamic system, laid the foundation for prostitution and the evils and diseases of the most revolting nature and character under which modern Christendom groans,..."  (Journal of Discourses, Vol. 13, page 195)

      Brigham Young, along with his counselors and apostles strongly attacked Christianity.  They hated monogamy and blamed it on Rome and "Romish" priests.  They said monogamy was a curse established by robbers.  They said that while monogamy leads to prostitution, polygamy leads to health and finer looking people.  They associated monogamy with Apostate Christianity which originated in Rome and was corrupting nations. They claimed that while monogamy would lead to disease, polygamy was a superior philosophy which would lengthen the history of a nation.

      This attack on Christianity is twisted in so many ways.  It is a twisted view of history, a twisted view of Christianity and a twisted view of scripture.  Deuteronomy 17:17 warns against multiplying wives.  "Neither shall he multiply wives to himself, that his heart turn not away:..."  Genesis 2:24 only speaks of one wife.  "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh."  This verse uses the words "one flesh" rather than forty or fifty. Even the Book of Mormon condemns polygamy.  Jacob 1:15 condemns polygamy as a wicked practice.  "...the people of Nephi, under the reign of the second king, began to grow hard in their hearts, and indulge themselves somewhat in wicked practices, such as like unto David of old desiring many wives and concubines, and also Solomon, his son."  Jacob 3:5 says, "Behold, the Lamanites....have not forgotten the commandment of the Lord, which was given unto our father - that they should have save it were one wife, and concubines they should have none,..."  Jacob 2:27 states, "...For there shall not any man among you have save it be one wife; and concubines he shall have none;"  Jacob 2:24 states, "Behold, David and Solomon truly had many wives and concubines, which thing was abonminable before me, saith the Lord."  While Brigham Young was a Mormon President, he completely ignored the words of the Book of Mormon on polygamy and monogamy and he twisted the Bible to say what he wanted.

Sunday, January 15, 2017

Polygamy Commanded?

    
God, in the Book of Mormon, speaks out strongly against plural marriage.  It is condemned as wicked in Jacob 1:15.  "And now it came to pass that the people of Nephi,... began to grow hard in their hearts, and indulge themselves somewhat in wicked practices, such as like unto David of old desiring many wives and concubines, and also Solomon, his son."  The practice is condemned again in Jacob 2:23.  "...This people begin to wax in iniquity; they understand not the scriptures, for they seek to excuse themselves in committing whoredoms, because of the things which were written concerning David and Solomon his son."  The following verse, verse 24, calls it an abomination. "Behold David and Solomon truly had many wives and concubines, which thing was abominable before me, saith the Lord."  Jacob 2:26 says that God will not tolerate the practice.  "Wherefore, I the Lord God will not suffer that this people shall do like unto them of old."  Jacob 2:27&28 commands us to only have one wife.  "...For there shall not any man among you have save it be one wife; for I , the Lord God, delight in the chastity of women. And whoredoms are an abomination before me; thus saith the Lord of Hosts."  The God of the Book of Mormon calls plural marriage "wicked" and an "abomination".
      Many disagree with the Book of Mormon and claim that God commanded the practice in the old Testament. It was obviously practiced in the old testament, but was it commanded by God?  D&C 132:34 contradicts the Bible in saying that, "God commanded Abraham, and Sarah gave Hagar to Abraham to wife.  And why did she do it?  Because this was the law;..."  Genesis 16 does not call it a law or say that it was commanded by God.  It was entirely Sarah's idea.  "...She said to Abram, "The Lord has kept me from having children.  Go, sleep with my slave; perhaps I can build a family through her.  Abram agreed to what Sarai said." (Genesis 16:2)
      The Bible speaks against plural marriage in Deuteronomy 17:17.  "Neither shall he multiply wives to himself, That his heart turn not away:..."  King Solomon's heart problem is mentioned in 1 Kings 11:3&4.  "And he (Solomon) had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines: and his wives turned away his heart.  For it came to pass, when Solomon was old, that his wives turned away his heart after other gods: and his heart was not perfect with the LORD his God, as was the heart of David his father."
      D&C 132:54 is a prophesy about Emma Smith.  "And I command mine handmaid, Emma Smith, to abide and cleave unto my servant Joseph, and to none else. But is she will not abide this commandment she shall be destroyed, saith the Lord; for I am the Lord thy God, and will destroy her if she abide not in my law."  Not only did this prophesy not come to pass, the opposite happened.  Joseph Smith accepted plural marriage and was assassinated.  Emma Smith rejected plural marriage and taught her sons that Joseph Smith did not practice it.  She lived a long life.  She finally died in 1879.  This was a false prophesy.
      The Old Testament details the lives of many plural marriage families over many years.  The fruit of plural marriage was contention, jealousy, envy, murder, rape, incest, etc.  It was not a peaceful lifestyle.  Mormon writer Todd Compton has written a 788 page history book on the wives of Joseph Smith.  The name of his book is "In Sacred Loneliness."  Again, these are not peaceful, happy stories.  There was a lot of contention and sadness.  They lived very hard lives.
      To say that God commanded plural marriage for the patriarchs is false according to the Bible and the Book of Mormon.

Sunday, September 20, 2015

Pushing Polygamy in Mormonism

Brigham Young

Pushing Polygamy
      Since the founding of the Roman empire monogamy has prevailed more extensively than in times previous to that. The founders of that ancient empire were robbers and women stealers, and made laws favoring monogamy in consequence of the scarcity of women among them, and hence this monogamic system which now prevails throughout all Christendom, and which has been so fruitful a source of prostitution and whoredom throughout all the Christian monogamic cities of the Old and New World, until rottenness and decay are at the root of their institutions both national and religious. (Brigham Young, Journal Of Discourses 11: 128)
       It is a fact worthy of note that the shortest-lived nations of which we have record have been monogamic. Rome…was a monogamic nation, and the numerous evils attending that system early laid the foundation for that ruin which eventually overtook her.  (George Q. Cannon, Journal of Discourses, 13:202)
      This law of monogamy, or the monogamic system, laid the foundation for prostitution and the evils and diseases of the most revolting nature and character under which modern Christendom groans,…  (Orson Pratt, Journal of Discourses 13:195
      “I have noticed that a man who has but one wife, and is inclined to that doctrine, soon begins to wither and dry up, while a man who goes into plurality looks fresh, young and sprightly. Why is this? Because God loves that man, and because he honors his word. Some of you may not believe this, but I not only believe it but I also know it. For a man of God to be confined to one woman is small business… I do not know what we should do if we had only one wife apiece.” (Heber C. Kimball, Deseret News, April 22, 1857)
      The only men who become Gods, even the Sons of God, are those who enter into polygamy. Others attain unto a glory and may even be permitted to come into the presence of the Father and the Son; but they cannot reign as kings in glory, because they had blessings offered unto them, and they refused to accept them.  (Brigham Young, Journal of Discourses 11:269)
And as he has here stated, as having come from the mouth of the Prophet, this doctrine of eternal union of husband and wife, and of plural marriage, is one of the most important doctrines ever revealed to man in any age of the world. Without it man would come to a full stop, without it we never could be exalted to associate with and become gods, neither could we attain to the power of eternal increase, or the blessings pronounced upon
Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, the fathers of the faithful.  (Joseph F. Smith, Journal of Discourses 21:9-10)


…if plurality of marriage is not true or in other words, if a man has no divine right to marry two wives or more in this world, then marriage for eternity is not true, and your faith is all vain, and all the sealing ordinances and powers, pertaining to marriages for eternity are vain, worthless, good for nothing; for as sure as one is true the other also must be true. Amen  (Orson Pratt, Journal Of Discourses 21:296)

Saturday, July 12, 2014

14 Year Old Bride - Helen Mar Kimball

      

     

      Helen Mar Kimball is an interesting woman in Mormon History.  She was a speaker, writer, poet and defender of the Plural Marriage principle.  She was born on August 22, 1828 to Vilate and Heber C. Kimball.  As part of her religious duty, she married Joseph Smith in May of 1843.  During the same month, Joseph Smith also married Lucy Walker, Sarah Lawrence and Maria Lawrence.  Helen believed that her marriage to Joseph Smith eternally linked her family to the prophet and seer of the Church.  Joseph Smith assured her saying, "If you will take this step, it will ensure your eternal salvation & exaltation and that of your father's household & all of your kindred."  It provided heavenly security for her and her family.
     At the age of 15, Helen became a widow.  Her eternal husband, Joseph Smith, was martyred.  At the age of 17, Helen married for love.  Her earthly husband, Horace Whitley, was 23 years old.  He was much closer to her age than Joseph Smith was.
Helen's father, Heber C. Kimball, had an important role in Mormon history.  He was told by Joseph Smith that he must enter into plural marriage or lose his apostleship and be damned.  By February of 1846, he had married about 35 women.  Helen's husband Horace also married other wives:  Lucy Amelia Bloxham, Mary Cravath and Mary Minerva Wells.
      Helen wrote about her early life in Kirtland and Nauvoo.  These writings were first included in the Woman's Exponent in May 1880.  Although she may have hated polygamy in her heart, she publicly defended the practice.  In 1882 she published Plural Marriage as Taught by the Prophet Joseph.  This was a defense against Joseph Smith III, who was preaching that his father (Joseph Smith) never practiced polygamy.  In 1884, she published another booklet, Why We Practice Plural Marriage.
      At General Conference, on October 6, 1890, Helen witnessed a historical change in her church.  Her own son, Orson Whitney, read the Manifesto which stated that the church ceased performing plural marriages.  I wonder if Helen might have thought of Matthew 5:18 as she listened to the Manifesto.  "For verily I say unto you, Till heaven and earth pass, one jot or one tittle shall in no wise pass from the law, till all be fulfilled. Or perhaps 1 Peter 1:24&25 might have come to mind, "For all flesh is as grass, and all the glory of man as the flower of grass. The grass withereth, and the flower thereof falleth away:  But the word of the Lord endureth for ever."  If plural marriage really was God's law, why would it "pass from the law" or not endure or be set aside?  Joseph Smith told her that her step of plural marriage was for her eternal salvation.  This was not the kind of eternal salvation that the apostle Paul preached.  Neither was it Paul's gospel message.  The Apostle Paul had these strong words in Galatians 1:7-9, ",,,but there be some that trouble you, and would pervert the gospel of Christ.  But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach any other gospel unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.  As we said before, so say I now again, If any man preach any other gospel unto you than that ye have received, let him be accursed. 
      Helen Mar Kimball lived a difficult life.  She suffered through serious illnesses and depression.  She buried two husbands and five children.  Another child committed suicide.  Helen passed away on November 15th, 1896.
      I read this story of Helen Mar Kimball from the book, In Sacred Loneliness by Mormon author Todd Compton.

 
 
 
 
 
 

Remembering the Wives
of
Joseph Smith 

 
  





 
 
   
MISSION and PURPOSE
Acknowledge and remember these largely forgotten women


 

Wife
Date
Age
Husband*
Jan 1827
1833
1838
Apr 1841
Oct 1841
Dec 1841
Jan 1842
Feb 1842
Feb 1842
Mar 1842
Apr 1842
Jun 1842
Jun 1842
Jul 1842
Jun 1842
Jul 1842
Aug 1842
Feb 1843
Spring 1843
Mar 1843
Mar 1843
Apr 1843
May 1843
May 1843
May 1843
May 1843
Mid 1843
Jun 1843
Jun 1843
Jul 1843
Mid 1843
Sep 1843
1843
Nov 1843
22
16
37
26
20
31
33
23
23
47
27
50
53
37
38
17
37
33
16
19
22
30
17
17
19
14
29
29
58
32
27
19
14
56
NONE
NONE
George W. Harris
NONE
Henry Jacobs
Norman Buell
NONE
Windsor Lyon
Adam Lightner
David Sessions
Orson Hyde
Jabez Durfee
John Cleveland
NONE
NONE
NONE
NONE
Edward Sayers
NONE
NONE
NONE
NONE
NONE
NONE
NONE
NONE
NONE
Jonathan Holmes
NONE
NONE
NONE
NONE
NONE
NONE
* Living Husband at the time of
   Marriage to Joseph Smith



 
 
 

              BIBLIOGRAPHY
 
 
 
WWW.FAMILYSEARCH.ORG  (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Salt Lake City)
MORMON POLYGAMY: A HISTORY  (Van Wagoner, Signature Books, Salt Lake City, 1989)* 
MORMON ENIGMA: EMMA HALE SMITH  (Newell & Avery, University of Illinois Press, Urbana and Chicago, 1994)* 
IN SACRED LONELINESS: THE PLURAL WIVES OF JOSEPH SMITH  (Compton, Signature Books, Salt Lake City, 1997)* 
DOCTRINE AND COVENANTS  (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Salt Lake City)

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

How many goddess wives?


    Heber C Kimball

       How many wives does God the Father have?  According to Mormon doctrine, everyone was conceived by a spiritual mother(goddess) and father(god) in heaven before coming to earth.  We pre-existed as spirit beings in heaven before receiving a physical body on this planet.  Every person is supposed to have had the same "heavenly father".  This heavenly father is supposedly confined to one place in a physical body of an exalted man.  Early Mormon leaders claimed that God the father had a number of wives.  Here are the words of Heber C. Kimball:  "In the spirit world there is an increase of males and females, there are millions of them, and if I am faithful all the time, and continue right along with brother Brigham, we will go to brother Joseph and say, 'Here we are brother Joseph; we are here ourselves are we not, with none of the property we possessed in our probationary state, not even the rings on our fingers?'  He will say to us, 'Come along, my boys, we will give you a good suit of clothes.  Where are your wives?'  'They are back yonder; they would not follow us.'  'Never mind,' says Joseph, 'here are thousands, have all you want.'  Perhaps some do not believe that, but I am just simple enough to believe it" (Journal of Discourses 4:209).
     It is incomprehensible how all people on earth could be a spirit child of one father God and his wives.  It sounds logistically impossible.  Today there are over 7 billion people on the earth.  How many wives would it take to bear 7 billion spirit beings?  Kimball believed that Joseph would tell him that thousands of wives would be available.  Let's suppose that God the Father had 7 thousand wives.  Each wife would need to bear 1 million spirit children for there to be 7 billion people on an earth.  Kimball claimed that there were millions of males and females in the spirit world.  Or, let's suppose God the Father had 7 million wives.  Each wife would have to bear 1 thousand spirit children to reach the 7 billion people mark.  God the Father would have to be extremely busy with his wives.  I am not going to do the math on that! 
     Mormon doctrine creates some serious logistical problems.  It doesn't seem possible or even logical.  Who would want to be the millionth wife?  What kind of care would the thousandth child receive?  This is much different than Genesis 2:24:  "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh."  It doesn't say a thousand flesh or a million flesh.  It says one man and one woman should become one flesh.  Jesus spoke of the heavenly marriage mistake in Matthew 22:29&30:  "Jesus answered and said unto them, Ye do err, not knowing the scriptures, nor the power of God.  For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven."  I think we can safely say that the God of the Bible is not the Mormon god with his many wives.